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Sometimes I'm bold and brash. And, sometimes I'm prone to crash. Sometimes I say too much. And, sometimes it's not enough. )
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graymontgoose@twitter.com [Oct. 17th, 2009/02:25 am]

Who's been laying down new jams at an alarming rate? I have.
7 hour ago from mobile web

Speaking of upcoming.... White Collar coming to television screens soon this next weekend.
13 hours ago from mobile web.

It is true. I play a homo in an upcoming movie. Don't get your hopes up pro-manfrenching fangirls. There is no such occurence in the movie.
13 hours ago from mobile web.

Got the day off today, tomorrow, and Sunday. I have this newfound freedom again that I missed more than I cared to acknowledge before. Bring on the women!
17 hours ago from mobile web.

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graymontgoose@twitter [Oct. 13th, 2009/11:57 am]

Support Howie Day and go buy his new album "Sound The Alarm."
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graymontgoose@twitter [Oct. 13th, 2009/12:42 am]
@SAMLK I know I wasn't there but I set up a gift for Kyle to recieve anyway. Did he get it? Did he like it?
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[Oct. 8th, 2009/04:05 pm]
[Mood |hopeful]
[Music |Thriving Ivory - Angels On The Moon]

I think about my life and how it’s changed and how fast it changed. Then I think about time and how hard a luxury it can be to have. When you’re young you have absolutely no concept of what it really is because you don’t have any responsibilities to really live up to. My first job was bagging groceries at a supermarket and that was at 14. That’s when I first learned the concept. The first time I tried something illegal was 15. The first car I drove was my father’s beamer. My first place away from home was in Tennessee. I remember how I moved to New York and lived on the other side of the bridge in New Jersey in the world’s shittiest apartment, commuted all the time to the city by foot or through friends. And of my most memorable romance, be it as rocky as a Colorado mountain about all love I’ve lost because I just didn’t feel the same way.

Then I think about all the time I’ve wasted. About the wrong decisions I’ve made and the okay ones and the good ones. Think about the ones I’m still not so sure about and I begin to obsess over them once again. Then I think about the way I broke it off with Drew, someone I’d been with for two years; someone I was expecting to live out the rest of my life with. I think about the rash decision I made for the sake of saving a relationship I want to believe is bigger than this existence.

I was nervous. I could feel my stomach drop further and further like I was on a good rollercoaster with each word she said. I wasn’t sure if I was going to play this right and get it out. I’d been seriously thinking about it for a month and a half and now I was sitting face to face with the woman set to be my wife, trying to find my way out of the most serious relationship I’d ever gotten myself into. I’d eased my way into it slowly but surely with seemingly innocent small talk. She took it surprisingly well considering I’d have expected a slap and a swift kick to my sack but I only got tears and her trying to give me back the ring I bought her.

I was completely unrefined in the way I did it and she’ll probably resent me for the rest of my life for it but it’s not an issue I’ve never dealt with before. In all my brutal honesty, I told her that there was in fact someone else.

Officially put: “I don't want us to end on a bad note, Drew. I do love you. We just need to call off the engagement before we get too far and realize we're not as right for each other as we think we are." Am I insensitive? Perhaps. The last time I made a decision to leave it turned out okay. I didn’t really know what else to say if I wasn’t apologizing for letting this happen. Truth is, I undoubtedly wanted it to happen. So, as she brought her hand up with a sniffle to take the ring off, I felt break… for her… as I tried to sympathize with how she must have really felt. She was always enthusiastic about all things about us and the wedding being planned. In all honesty it was impossible to understand. I just hope she finds the one she’s meant to be with.
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Twitter [Oct. 3rd, 2009/11:30 pm]

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I think I'll be Harry Potter. http://twitpic.com/k78eh, http://twitpic.com/k78fb
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Twitter [Oct. 1st, 2009/11:47 am]

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Guess who almost got mowed down by a speeding taxi? I knew I missed NYC for a reason. Nothing more welcoming than a screaming Indian man for getting in his way.
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Twitter [Sep. 21st, 2009/04:44 pm]

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Gonna buy me this smoothie and see where my life goes from there.
4 hours ago from mobile web

Finally on my way home. The Florida sun did its number on me.
7 hours ago from mobile web.

Got stiffed in all the wrong ways when Sam refused my romantic advances via surprise goodbye mackage. I forgive. I wouldn't wanna kiss me either.
3 days ago from mobile web

Visit the White Collar mini site through USAnetwork.com and support your favorite douchebag by watching me fail at on-screen sophistication/sexiness on Oct. 23 @ 10/9c.
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Away We Go wrapped this Friday. Had fun filming that.
Lesson learned: Never play games with set chefs cuz they're serious about kissing you.
3 days ago from mobile web

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Twitter [Sep. 19th, 2009/09:02 pm]
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"It's not just chemistry. It's everything there is. It's us and all that we've learned through and about each other."

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Waitress found that we made a beautiful baby together, as well. That was obviously our cue to pro-create but she isn't feeling me. Shameful.
1 hour ago from Tweetie

Met with my Jew of choice, Lydia. Had a nice little epiphanic conversation with her after dinner with her mini Jew too.
1 hour ago from Tweetie

Man there's so many times I don't know what I'm doing. Like I don't know now. And I don't know what I'm supposed to do but if she feels bad then I do too. So I let her be. Rob Thomas man-poetry
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graymontgoose@twitter [Sep. 17th, 2009/10:07 am]
In Florida. Last week of filming. Gonna give Samantha a big, fat, wet smooch for farewewell's sake. Maybe with a little bit of tongue, too. }:->
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Private [Sep. 7th, 2009/08:07 pm]

Women's heads are usually filled with every kind of nonsense about the things men do to get some by other jaded women. They whine, bitch, and cry about how they're never going to be the same after getting their precious little heart broken. For the most part our first heartbreak is one of the toughest and most trying things in our lives. It can set us up for how we're going to deal with issues in the future. Do you hide and push the issue aside or do you deal sooner than later and come to terms with yourself and the person? Either way, you're changed no matter which way you look at it.

I've only overheard a handful of conversations between girls. Surely, not all of it is far from the truth. Then again, while they're allowed to form their own opinions sometimes those opinions are indeed the furthest thing from the truth and they're only drawing from the stereotypical stigma bestowed upon them which is fine because they obviously don't have anything else to go on. While they aren't privy to doing that because men ocassionally seem to exhibit the same behaviour every now and again, I for the most part do the most logical thing I can possibly think of like when I left home as a kid. It was done thinking it was the thing with the most common sense behind it. (I had grades barely fit for community college. Joining the military was another option but I gave myself one last opportunity to make something useful of myself before resorting to that.)

I'll start with the one about us saying what he have to say to get you out of your pants. Undoubtedly, it's a given that when a a heterosexual male approaches a heterosexual woman he doesn't have intentions of making a best friend forever. Surely, we can talk to them without the lust factor involved but that'd be in the case of needing information. We're all a relationship based species. We want to form bonds of all kinds to fill that social interaction meter whether the conversation is short or long. If we ask for a phone number it's a sure fire we're working our way into your bedsheets. That's no surprise. Most women understand that too, While we don't mind being surrounded by women it's ideally not to hook up for an innocent apple martini at the local lounge to talk about how our day went and the relationship problems we're currently having. You're easily questionable by the rest of the dick-sporting community if that's why you're calling girls.

I ran into Alexa after I used a customer only bathroom in an exclusive restuarant I had absolutely no business in that day. I slipped past the host when he wasn't looking because I had an insane piss urge and then bumped her friend during my rush out. In typical vicious Alex fashion, she refused to let it go until I somehow made it up. I didn't make anything up because I was far too caught up in one of the most surreal moments of my life. After accepting that it'd be more likely that I'd never see her again and asking another woman to marry me, she was standing a few feet away from me so I tested the reality of it by grabbing her for a kiss against the wall. When I didn't wake up minutes later or didn't see a fish on feet walking by, I realized that this was indeed her so I kept in contact. Surprisingly enough, my intentions when contacting her again afterwards weren't only to fuck her brains out the way I'd always imagined I'd do it the day she decided to actually let me. Yet, the thought wasn't far behind. I wanted to know her again. I immediately knew I wanted to work my way back into her existence despite her claims that things just weren't going to be the same.

They will and they won't be. This is a new us. We've grown up but we're still young yet, we don't have much time. We've matured but we haven't completely changed. We have ridiculous arguments about the things I did and the things I didn't but should have. Essentially we are who we are/were with far more experience than our days in high school. Our views still crash and explode against each other but everything worth having always comes at a price. One that I'm all too willing to pay through working it out no matter how long it takes. I assured her of it.

In a letter I once wrote her I assured her she'd always be my first choice which isn't a lie even now. I betray my fiance's trust to spend time with her. I encourage Drew to do things with her friends not only because I want her to have fun but because I'm thinking about what I want which is the chance for another date with an old friend I have too much chemistry with. I use the age old "I'm working late" excuse to steal opportunities of finishing a discussion I start with her in the middle of the street. They're all half-truths. I do work late but don't call Drew immediately after getting off to let her know what I'm gonna do or where I'm gonna go. I let her think I'm still working with other musicians, trying to come up with the next radio friendly hit. I weave my excuses and plans carefully enough to not get caught and in the end I end up acting like a world class bitchboy by rolling off a woman who's readily waiting for me to have my way already. Because I can't tell her I love her like I once promised? I don't want to move too fast with her. I don't like throwing that word around so much when I don't mean it because I don't want to someday come to realize that it's not true and now I'm stuck in something I don't really want to be in. Don't get me wrong, there's a big possibility that I do have those feelings but I want to be able to mean it. The situation with Drew is that I do love her but I might like/love somebody else far more. So instead of having sex, I end up blue balled and spooning to sleep like am old man.

Conclusion: I'm nothing more than a whiney bitch anymore.

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[Jul. 16th, 2009/01:37 am]
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[Location |NYC]
[Mood |awake]

http://www.usanetwork.com/series/whitecollar/index.html

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Japanese Commercial [May. 7th, 2009/02:44 am]
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Not in America for a reason...

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USA Commits to White Collar crime [May. 7th, 2009/02:11 am]
The Fox Television Studios production focuses on a pair of long-time adversaries, a charming criminal mastermind (Kevin Gray) and a dogged G-man (Tim DeKay).

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[Apr. 22nd, 2009/02:30 pm]
[Mood |annoyed]

Son of a bitch. Keely's off again to rescue her man.
At this rate, filming will never be done.

Never.

This is ridiculous and I'm sick of it.
I sympathize with Cash DiCarlo rage issues.
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[Apr. 7th, 2009/12:48 am]
[Mood |numb]

New York.

New York and Boston.

New York, Boston, Drew, and an old friend.

 

Splitting time between filming, house hunting and finding ways to see old friends isn’t the easiest to juggle. Like I don’t already have enough to juggle with the wedding on my mind, it’s like throwing a piano into the mix. While the circus entertainer can handle it, he’s obviously stressing about his situation as time goes on and his perfect timing somehow slowly begins to deteriorate when he makes the mistake of allowing his mind to go blank for the briefest of moments. That’s when it all comes crashing down on him and the entertainer has learned his lesson. He sits there wondering; looking around at the mess he’s just made of himself and of everything around him. He’s a fool but he picks up the pieces and walks his humiliated self out of the spotlight, unscathed. Uninjured but still affected by what went down, he’ll heal and move on and when he does come back out the crowd will cheer.

 

I love Drew. She’s the longest steady relationship I’ve ever had. Almost two years together after starting off as two complete strangers is amazing to think about. The last girl I was with, I had absolutely nothing in common with. Our relationship was based on sex. We were on and off for three years. I didn’t love her. I loved the thought of pinning her and taking her to town every chance I got. She loved being pinned and the violent fucks I gave her. She regularly cheated on anyone she was with to get with me and it gave me a huge ego boost. I remember finding her in a public place once. She was with someone who was too self-absorbed to care that she was gone for a while. I had seen her and pulled her aside and she was more than willing to play along. We made out and I sent her back to whoever she was with. We met up later and got each other off and that’s all it ever consisted of but I do care about that girl to a limited extent. I wouldn’t cheat on Drew with that girl, ever.

 

I’m not going to say that I regret pinning Alexa to a wall and kissing her until I thought my lips were going to fall off. Considering I’m engaged, it could be a bad idea, though. I didn’t think about Drew. I didn’t think about how she’d feel if she found out. I lied when we ran into Alexa on the street near a hotdog stand and Drew asked me if I’d seen her prior, recently when we were in the Range Rover. I said no. The foundation of my parents’ method was honesty. I tend to fail them in that way and several others. I’m no stranger to failure, though.

 

I’ve failed tests and quizzes. Fail to follow through. I failed my parents. I failed my only friend. I failed Drew whose heart I’d hate to have to break, EVER.

 

I seek her out and find her. She isn’t so happy with me if only because I failed to tell her I’m engaged. We’ve been back in each other’s lives for only a couple of weeks and already I have her throwing her fists at me and pushing me out. When I got there, I knew there’d probably be a scene. Understandable.

 

She still cares. Even after my asshole antics, she still cares. It’s difficult to understand why in all honesty

 

I’ll continue filming in Boston until the end of this month. I hope Keely sticks to the schedule and doesn’t run off, leaving us all standing around like a bunch of idiots trying to work around her absence until her diva ass decides to come back from Mars. After that, we’ll go back to Los Angeles to finish filming on the lot then I’ll come back to NYC for good.

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Personal Thread 1 [Mar. 3rd, 2009/04:00 am]
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[Location |Manhattan]
[Mood |uncomfortable]

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Private [Feb. 18th, 2009/02:31 pm]
[Location |New York]
[Mood |creative]

Stolen )


(OOC: All music videos like this will be private from now on. So are any previous vids)
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[Jan. 11th, 2009/12:46 am]
[Mood |working]

Tabloids are all up in Drew's shit these days. Someone spotted her ring, I guess, and pointed a finger. That's fine. I want the whole world to know. I just thought I'd swing by here while I'm around the computer. Actually, I'm trying to get a song done. We'll see how that goes.
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[Dec. 31st, 2008/01:52 am]
[Mood |exhausted]

Drew and I were at the airport in New York just a few hours ago. I don't know but I think I may be going crazy or I need to get a good pair of glasses. I remember the first time I moved to New York way back when. I swore I saw her everywhere I went. The slightest wave in some blonde hair and I swore to Jesus that it was Alex. She was in everything I saw for a long time. It took a hell of a lot to put her behind me (not forget her, though) but to grow up and realize that it wasn't her I was seeing.

It's been years since I swore I saw her and today at the airport, just before Drew and I got back on the flight, I swear I saw her again. It's difficult. I want to say that it was just my mind playing tricks on me in the light of my new engagement. The likelihood that I'd ever see her again is slim to none. I think it's just because I've been thinking about her so much lately since I proposed to Drew that my mind is messing with me. At the same time, the way this girl stood had me intrigued. I had this gut instinct. I WANTED to take another look but I didn't want to be so obvious about it. What if it wasn't her and it turned out this random chick saw me eyeing her like some kind of creep. I only caught glimpses of her from afar. Sometimes of the back of her head, other times of her profile and only once full on but she was so damn far it could have been anyone.

Inconvenient as it was, the announced that our flight was boarding just as a crowd of people was passing and I was trying to get one more look. I really did wish she would have looked my way. Then again, if we had made eye contact and it was in fact her I don't think I'd know what to do. It's scary to think about but exhilirating. I WANT to see her again but the day I do I know I'd probably freeze in terror and excitement and confusion and amazement. 

I've been thinking about it all night. I'm having a hard time sleeping only because I'm thinking. I'm trying to imagine what I'd do if I did see her at long last, as difficult as that may be at first. I think I'd just say hello... 

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